Happy Wooden’s (Odin’s) Day
I have been meditating on this subject of alignment. To be clear I am talking about the idea that if things are lined up so they are in their correct positions for the purpose of having things be smoother. If your forcing things in your life, it might be because they are not aligned with who you are or your purposes.
In my case in particular, I feel that the goals I have and my bucket list in particular, don’t completely line up with the Nine Noble Virtues (NNV) and their principles. Even the principles might need some work in this regard. My main focus here is to first get the principles to line up with the virtue better. Then I want my nine goals to each reflect one virtue strongly and then a bucket list item should line up with the virtue as well. The idea being that everything runs smoothly from one thing to the other, instead of being disjointed and out of sync. The virtue leads to the principle, the principle supports the goal and the goal leads to a lifetime achievement known more commonly as a bucket list item.
Of course the challenge of this is reflected in the below meme.
I consider this a real spiritual thing – does it resonate, line up and feel right. I feel the time has come in my life to make sure all things line up and harmonize better with each other. This next month of working through this process will be designed to help me work closer to that place of balance, being centered and alignment.
“Self Reliance is the spirit of independence, which is achieved not only for the individual, but also for the family, clan, tribe and nation.”
Principle: Work to be self-reliant in all things.
This week I will use the three business virtues to illustrate my point.
I like the virtue as it is written so there is no problem there. The principle seems incomplete because it doesn’t really reflect the later part of the virtue about family, clan, tribe and nation. The principle seems very focused on the individual side for me but needs revision to make it reflect the other aspects of the virtue.
The goal that would be attached to this,at least as I see it initially is – find the new, better paying job as it secures my self-reliance a little better. The Bucket List Item – This is where I have a problem of not wanting to force anything here. To align things properly with that, I might have to revise the bucket list.
“Industriousness is the willingness to work hard, always striving for efficiency, as a joyous activity in itself”
Principle: Work with enjoyment of work itself.
The principle here has no idea of efficiency. It needs to be worked in somehow. Goal might be Finish my internship and then with that done a new goal could be added. The Bucket list item could be the cruise with Budapest as the final destination. A final reward for working hard for both me and my wife.
“Hospitality is the willingness to share what one has with one’s fellows, especially when they are far from home.”
Principle: Be ready to be hospitable to those who truly need it.
I actually think the virtue and principle are fine here. The budget goal is the tool for prosperity as a goal which leads to being more hospitable. The Bucket list item? Good question. Learning a language? Hard to say. Probably another cause for revision of the bucket list.
Higher Virtue – Justice:
No revision here. I think the concept of alignment fits the idea of justice very well because when things are natural and unforced, relationships work better and the right decision seems much more self apparent.
- Communication / Cuddle Time
- Reading / Study – Half-hour per day minimum or until all necessary work is completed.
- Clear In Box/ To Do List
- Financial Transaction Input
- Carb Count – currently two.
This is probably the routine that gets done the most just under my morning routine. A few things here and there. During my time of off script, I would say the financial transaction, carb count and in box stuff dropped off the most. Just proves they are activities that still need work and more discipline.
- Be transparent with my wife to improve communication
- Finalize last requirements for my degree – Internship.
- Find a new, better paying job by the end of March 2019 or before.
- In 2019 have a clear budget and financial plan working by the end of the year.
- Maintain a daily blog streak of one post per day for an entire year (365 days).
- Keep gym membership going somewhere and lift weights minimum of four times per week and walk minimum four times per week through end of 2019
- Follow Paleo Diet completely and use intermittent fasting until the end of 2019
- Cross one thing off bucket list every six months (Deadlines July 1st, and December 31st of 2019)
- Be in the best shape I can be by March 18th, 2019 (50th birthday), take pictures.
As you may have guessed. going to revise this and line them up with virtues and principles. I also want to make them SMARTer. More on that on Freya’s Day.
Goals achieved since Summer 2018: 1
- Basic Emergency Fund – $1000
- Debt Snowball
- Fully funded Emergency fund
- Invest 15% of income into retirement
- Pay off Home Early
- Build Wealth and Give
Tax time presents us with the opportunity to get number one done. Then it will be time to tackle the debt. The new job might be something that can charge this process so I keep searching.
The Rabyd Skald – Wandering Soul, Bard and Philosopher. The Grey Wayfarer.