Happy Wooden’s (Odin’s) Day.
Last week it was talk of a master plan. This week it is trying to find a course to chart. If I have a weakness here it is figuring out where I want to go from here. I guess it is on the one hand understandable. After doing one thing for twenty years, going a completely different direction which is in large part unknown is difficult.
I guess sometimes, I do feel like the viking boarding the ship and the notion of that captain is to just set sail into uncharted territory and see where we land in the end. You still have to pick a direction to sail, and that is the thing. What direction to sail?
There is also the issue of The Grey having created a bit of an emotional storm to navigate. It is; however, subsiding a little. I guess I still struggle with unfinished business. I still struggle with not being able to end certain relationships the right way. They need to be ended, but they kind of don’t sit well with me right now. I guess I still struggle internally with trying to figure out the just way of doing so.
I think I have made the decision to follow the business path as my basic compass direction. I think it is the path that will allow me to use skills I already have and my education to the best use. I am thinking a fully online MBA while I work in business; from an educational point of view, would be a good next step there. I just don’t know where specifically this will take me. What shore will I ultimately land on. Well that is the adventure part, isn’t it? To pull out of the storm, I could really use an adventure right now.
I also have decided to actually make a plan for writing that novel. That is my bucket list item and it could be a career if I get one novel to be published the right way, It is something I can do in a few hours a week at first. I have participated in National Novel Writing Month a few times and know you can write a lot of things in a short time.
“Self Reliance is the spirit of independence, which is achieved not only for the individual, but also for the family, clan, tribe and nation.”
Principle: Work to be self-reliant in all things.
I guess the issue here is that I feel I have achieved self-reliance of a sort for myself and my wife. I mean we could use greater prosperity, it is the line about ‘family, clan, tribe and nation’ that I ponder from time to time. It may affect my career path and affect me decisions about what course to set and what education to pursue.
“Industriousness is the willingness to work hard, always striving for efficiency, as a joyous activity in itself”
Principle: Work with enjoyment of work itself.
I work hard. I enjoy working. I want to enjoy my career again. I haven’t felt that enjoyment of occupation in about three years now. I want it back because it really gives you a sense of purpose.
“Hospitality is the willingness to share what one has with one’s fellows, especially when they are far from home.”
Principle: Be ready to be hospitable to those who truly need it.
I wrote on hospitality yesterday. I guess right now I am meditating on how to be a person who people feel at home in my presence. It is an interesting thing to think on.
Higher Virtue – Justice:
I struggle with justice. I don’t vengeance, I want justice and that is much harder to achieve. Probably at the center of the source of this storm right now is this desire for justice and knowing it might never happen. There is also the notion that perhaps the scales are balanced because I am not exactly innocent here, but then again real friendship shouldn’t be about guilt or innocence.
- Communication / Cuddle Time
- Reading / Study – Half-hour per day minimum or until all necessary work is completed.
- Clear In Box/ To Do List
- Financial Transaction Input
- Carb Count – currently one a day.
Daily stuff can be the greatest struggle during the Grey. I give in to the temptation to skip things a lot during these times, but I notice when I don’t I get a little better, so things do get done. Just not everything some days.
- Be transparent with my wife to improve communication
- Finalize last requirements for my degree – Internship.
- Find a new, better paying job by the end of March 2019 or before.
- In 2019 have a clear budget and financial plan working by the end of the year.
- Maintain a daily blog streak of one post per day for an entire year (365 days).
- Keep gym membership going somewhere and lift weights minimum of four times per week and walk minimum four times per week through end of 2019
- Follow Paleo Diet completely and use intermittent fasting until the end of 2019
- Cross one thing off bucket list every six months (Deadlines July 1st, and December 31st of 2019)
- Be in the best shape I can be by March 18th, 2019 (50th birthday), take pictures.
I made finding a new job a goal by the end of March now, it is simply a practical change seeing I haven’t found one yet. I don’t keep track of goals that either don’t pan out or I have to modify. You never want to focus on your failures.
Goals achieved since Summer 2018: 1
- Basic Emergency Fund – $1000
- Debt Snowball
- Fully funded Emergency fund
- Invest 15% of income into retirement
- Pay off Home Early
- Build Wealth and Give
Tax time coming. I am hoping that step one will be in place because of it.
The Rabyd Skald – Wandering Soul, Bard and Philosopher. The Grey Wayfarer.