Happy Frigg and Freya’s Day
Knowledge might tell you it is raining, wisdom tells you to take out an umbrella or find cover, etc. Wisdom is hard to completely define as well but its actions are clear. When one finds themselves at a fork in the road of life, wisdom tells you what branch to take that is going to be the best.
Adding Wisdom is to the self Virtues is a natural fit, as wisdom ultimately affects us personally the most. Discipline is about being wise of looking ahead so greater and greater purposes can be achieved. Wisdom says to keep going despite failure and defeat because to stop is to die and no longer be truly alive. Fidelity is the wisdom of keeping your relationships strong, and being loyal to those who are loyal to you makes you stronger.
For me, this image of standing a crossroads happens often in life; it is what it means to be The Grey Wayfarer for me. Wisdom is the process of assessing which path is best. Wisdom guides the decision and thus becomes a very important higher virtue.
“Discipline is the willingness to be hard on oneself first and then if needed help with the development with others, so that greater purposes may be achieved.”
Principle: Apply discipline to every aspect of life that it can be applied.
The real trick right now is to make sure routines are finished each day and that the weeks work has been done. I find that while I do need to take breaks from time to time, the best way to handle all of it is to of it as early as possible in each day.
I am debating with and evening routine that would basically be me doing an evening quick hygiene thing and laying out my stuff for the next day, so things go faster in the morning.
“Perseverance is the ability to stand up and return from defeat and failure”
Principle: Keep getting up after every defeat or failure.
I keep going, I don’t know if this pause in between things constitutes failure or defeat so much as waiting for what is next.
“Fidelity is the will to be loyal to one’s Gods and Goddesses, to one’s Folk, to one’s self, and loyalty to one’s friends was as valued as highly as loyalty to one’s family.”
Principle: Be loyal to those who have been loyal to me.
I meditate often on how fidelity is much easier the smaller your circle is. At the same time, more friends is more opportunity. Something I need to think more about.
Higher Virtue – Wisdom:
Right now, wisdom is a big thought on my mind because I am changing the direction of my life and I want my new path to be a wise one. Adding the virtue means I have to think about what decisions I have upcoming and what the wisest course of action might be.
Right now I have another semester to do. My degree is finished except for the internship but I had to take a few classes to maintain full-time status to pay for it. Eventually, I will get some of the grant money from the research project for the internship to offset that but right now taking a few classes that will both pad my resume and keep the student loan people away for a bit. I continue to search for a new job and hopefully something that fits me and my life better will show itself soon.
- Weightlifting – 4 days per week.
- Cleaning – 3 days a week.
- Walking – 4 days a week
- Writing – 4 times a week
- Cheat Meal Count – Currently 3
Everything on here is doable. The issue mostly is weightlifting and walking because I don’t have a place to do them. I need a new gym for that. The rest I can do right now and have been.
My cheat meal count has dropped to three for this week and next. Eventually when I drop to two a week and two carb sources a day, that is where I want my lifestyle to be after this special diet for my birthday is done. In short, I am getting where I want my regular lifestyle habit to be very soon.
Foundational – By adding Love this week, I feel there is an overall vision to my virtues in the foundational aspects of my life. If there is a question now about Courage, Honor and Truth I can ask the question – which action is the most loving?
Business – The same could be said with Justice and the three virtues Self-Reliance, Industriousness and Hospitality. “What is the most just action?” becomes the question here.
Self – ‘What is the wisest action’ is the question for my self virtues. This will guide my questions of Discipline, Perseverance and Fidelity. Adding wisdom was a good call
In short when considering any decision I have three questions to ask about it. What is the most loving action? What is the most just action? What is the wisest action? Knowing which virtue is being used will be helpful with this to know which question applies the most. I like the change and the Higher Virtues are now fully incorporated.
The Rabyd Skald – Wandering Soul, Bard and Philosopher. The Grey Wayfarer.