Happy Frigg and Freya’s Day
I someone would ask me how I feel right now, I would tell them tired but still strong. It’s my soul that is tired. probably because of the fact I just don’t quit. I do need this Yuletide time to be a time of rest and celebration. I need to be able to breathe for a bit.
My goal is strength of soul more than anything else when it comes to myself. My soul has been bruised, bleed out. battered, betrayed and a whole host of other things this past year. I suppose though the fact that it is still alive and standing is a testimony to my perseverance if nothing else. Of course some of those wounds were self-inflicted too so my soul, heart and mind have a lot of arguments these days. I do feel healing is something I am experiencing when I get the chance but it is not so much healing I need right now; but rather, to feel that my soul is getting stronger and stronger every day. That the blood that was drained from it is starting to return.
I know I am using a lot of metaphors, but in describing what I am trying to get across it is pretty much what I am left with. I suppose though if I do ever find my strength again of soul I will be stronger than before. If that which does not kill you makes you stronger, then by the holy powers I am going to be a lot stronger. A helluva lot stronger.
“Discipline is the willingness to be hard on oneself first and then if needed help with the development with others, so that greater purposes may be achieved.”
Principle: Apply discipline to every aspect of life that it can be applied.
The one thing I am glad for, because it has kept me sane and focused, is the various discipline I keep putting in my life. Some things might seem weird to discipline like making sure I cuddle/communicate with my wife for at least ten minutes a day when possible. Not something people normally see on a self-discipline routine of any type, but it is important to do given all that has happened. Making sure things are good on all fronts.
I am going to do one thing this break which is reassess everything on my routines and disciplines lists. Going over my goals, the bucket list and everything else will take priority as well. As we come to the end of the year, it important to be clear about what the objectives are for the next one.
“Perseverance is the ability to stand up and return from defeat and failure”
Principle: Keep getting up after every defeat or failure.
Sometimes when I keep getting up from defeat and failure, I wonder if it is perseverance or stupidity. Part of my wants to say I have had enough and its time to throw in the towel. Unfortunately or fortunately, that isn’t part of my makeup. Quitting is never an option for me.
“Fidelity is the will to be loyal to one’s Gods and Goddesses, to one’s Folk, to one’s self, and loyalty to one’s friends was as valued as highly as loyalty to one’s family.”
Principle: Be loyal to those who have been loyal to me.
I think, in the future I will benefit from the lessons of fidelity I have learned this year. My own weaknesses in it are still evident when it comes to faith and my marriage based on last years performance. That’s a fair and honest assessment. but out of that failure I have found a new understanding of fidelity. That is, I know if I am being true to what I feel about those relationships, than being loyal to them is not a problem.
I have also learned what kind of friends I want in my life because true colors were shown very quickly and I guess now I am much more cautious who I give my friendship to these days. I don’t want to be the kind of ‘friend’ that others were to me this past year. ‘Friends’ only when you can do something for them or your friendship makes them look good. Perhaps there is another lesson in keeping my circle small and tight here. Probably very likely.
- Weightlifting – 4 days per week.
- Cleaning – 3 days a week.
- Walking – 4 days a week
I miss weightlifting right now. I plan on joining a new gym on Monday and getting back at it, so I am hopeful that this part will start not only to keep my body strong but my soul as well. I need my mediation of iron. Walking may be the treadmill every day for a bit until the weather gets better and I can use the trials again. Cleaning is pretty consistent and it keeps my minimalist self from going nuts.
So far the carb counting and cheat meal counting has worked. I haven’t gone over at any time. With that said, things are going to start to get more tight after the holidays are over. It’s at this point things will be put to the test and I must say the goal of looking as best I can is starting to be very real to me.
Foundational – Weary but good. This week marks the end of another semester of school. Graduation tomorrow, but I still have some work to do. I need to be very truthful about myself in the coming weeks as well as make good courageous and honorable decisions going into the new year.
Business – I am coming to the end of a stage of life here and trying to start a new one. My former career of ministry is done and I need to embrace a new one. Now I just need to find that path. Thankfully I have learned for a long time the importance of work and being industrious. I have learned to work toward being self-reliant and now it is time to gain enough prosperity to be hospitable to those who need it.
Self – Strength needs to be recovered here but I think the path I am on that involves fidelity, discipline and perseverance will help me. The goal in the end is to be a proud Viking soul that is prosperous and strong.
The Rabyd Skald – Wandering Soul, Bard and Philosopher. The Grey Wayfarer.