Happy Moon’s Day.
This week I want to concentrate on some of the future decisions I am going to need to make very soon. Forks in the road for The Grey Wayfarer. When it comes to my Foundational Level this is more about my general purpose for my life, What is the overall plan. Business is how I handle others, and Self is of course about how I handle myself. Foundational forks in the road are about principles I live by at all times.
The most significant change in my life in the last year was my departure from my faith which significantly changed my life both in my profession and my personal life. MY new ‘faith’ has been somewhat a question I wrestle with a lot. The one thing the Nine Noble Virtues has done for me, it has kept my life at a foundational level somewhat stable to go forward. That said every day is a challenge regarding ethical and moral decisions and that is what the foundational virtues are all about as I go forward on the path.
“Honor is the feeling of inner value and worth from which one knows that one is noble of being, and the desire to show respect for this quality when it is found in the world”
Principle – To possess a feeling of inner value about myself and my future with a desire to find the same in others.
Goal: Maintain a daily blog streak of one post per day for an entire year (365 days).
Bucket List: Hike the Northern Lakeshore Trail along the Pictured Rocks National Lakeshore in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan.
Whatever path I take these days I want it to be an honorable one. I want it to be something that as I walk that path, there is a feeling of inner value in what I am doing. in a recent conversation with a friend, he asked me how the job search was going. Oddly enough I didn’t refer to a business virtue for the answer but this concept of Honor. I want something that fits that gives my life meaning and value to myself. Where I can better recognize honor in others, once I possess it for myself.
“Courage is the bravery to do what is right always.”
Principle – Act with Courage at the right time.
Goal: Cross one thing off bucket list every year. Deadline March 31st
Bucket List: Go Back to Budapest, Hungary for a vacation.
I am finding when Courage is needed in any decision, it is more about following my intuition than what I see. I know you would think as an INFJ personality type, I would do this automatically, but actually, that makes you second guess yourself a lot instead of following your instincts. I need to make a lot more decisions following my instincts. They are far more often right than wrong. It is one thing to logically look at things and see the Truth of the situation, but at the same time what is right is often not a matter of logic. Doing the right thing at the right time is about a soul-deep decision that is more about guts than brains.
“Truth is the willingness to be honest and to say what one knows to be true and right. It is often better to not say anything at all if one cannot be honest.”
Principle – To Be Honest, and Speak Truth to Myself and Others. To Be Silent in the presence of Fools.
Goal: To Write a Non-Fiction Book by March 31st, 2020
Bucket List: Learn Latin by March 31st, 2020 to the point I can take a test and show my self proficient.
Now, this is not to say logic and reason don’t have a lot to do with my decisions. What I find Truth does – it defines what decisions are relevant and possible. It doesn’t make the decisions necessarily, but it helps me define what decisions need to be made and what benefits I can perceive through the Truth that each of those decisions has or might have. It is how mostly I see the path and the choices before me.
Higher Virtue: Love:
Which of my choices follows the most loving path? It is one of my three questions I ask at each decision point. Each fork in the road starts with this question of what is the most loving thing to do? There are two others that I will get to under Justice and Wisdom, but this one is usually the first. The thing I have to remember is the first person I need to love so I can love others, is myself. I have long neglected this part of love and I have made a commitment to ask the questions of self-love these days. It is starting to become more foundational and that is a good thing.
- Review Nine Noble Virtues (NNV), Principles, Goals and Bucket List
- Meditation – 3 min.
- Check Communications and Email.
- Paper Journal: Create Daily Log and To Do List.
- Breakfast, Medications, and Supplements.
- Shower and Personal Hygiene
- Get Dressed for the Day
I need to focus on this again and I think Stretching is going to come back after meditation. Mostly I miss stretching every morning in the nude. It was not only a physically relaxing thing to do but a spiritual one as well.
The Rabyd Skald – Wandering Soul, Bard, and Philosopher. The Grey Wayfarer.