Happy Frigg and Freya’s Day
I am drawing this week to a close with Being stronger. I am defining strong in its broadest possible sense in that I am not just talking physical strength, but mental, emotional and societal. One I have learned is stronger is stronger regardless of where it is or what kind it is. For me, this last year since leaving the ministry has been about finding new strength for life and I have found that in Discipline, Perseverance, and Fidelity there are great strengths to be found and developed.
The real issue is to always be strong and always be able to handle what life throws at you. Sometimes you do shit to yourself and then you have to deal with that with the other strengths you have. I have learned a lot through failure.
“Discipline is the willingness to be hard on oneself first and then if needed help with the development with others, so that greater purposes may be achieved.”
Principle: Apply discipline to every aspect of life that it can be applied.
Goal: To follow A FULL Paleo Diet Plan from April 1, 2019, to March 31, 2020.
Bucket List: Do a rebellious act on April Fools Day, April 1st, 2020.
I could be even more fully Paleo Diet. I have pretty much been doing pretty well here as my cheat meals and having a carb limit helps a lot but in truth, I could go full paleo this summer as well. I am going to read my book with the recipes again and see what I can come up with. My wife gets tired of the same old things but there are some different things I could do that might be good for both of us. I really need to take a cooking class someday.
My rebellious act is in the planning stages and I have some time so…
“Perseverance is the ability to stand up and return from defeat and failure”
Principle: Keep getting up after every defeat or failure.
Goal: To engage in an exercise program that involves weightlifting, hiking/walking, and stretching/ yoga an average of three days a week from April 1st, 2019 to March 31st, 2020
Bucket List: To get at least one tattoo by March 18th, 2020.
My program could use a little more walking but the lifting and stretching are spot-on. No worries here.
My tattoos are coming. Right now I have been saving for my mini vacation with the wife but if I come back when any left over it will be the seed money for my next thing which is my tattoo(s). Once I have enough for the first one I will be going for it.
“Fidelity is the will to be loyal to one’s Gods and Goddesses, to one’s Folk, to one’s self, and loyalty to one’s friends was as valued as highly as loyalty to one’s family.”
Principle: Be loyal to those who have been loyal to me.
Goal: Celebrate my wife and I’s 30th anniversary (June 10th, 2019) with a mini-vacation
Bucket List: Discover all the countries of origin from my genetics and visit them all by March 18th, 2029.
The mini-vacation coming up Saturday through Tuesday will mean this goal will be crossed off by next week. After my tattoos, my genetic test is on the list.
Higher Virtue – Wisdom:
I have gained l lot of wisdom this last year. I can thank a lot of things for that. For myself my simple refusal to quit or go down helps. But also there have been some true relationships as well. The simple act of doing things to keep improving myself is also a great way to just keep going.
- Weightlifting/Stretching – Minimum 3 days per week.
- Walking – Minimum 3 days a week
- Job Search – Minimum 3 days a week
- Cleaning – 3 days a week.
- Writing – 3 times a week
- Latin – 3 times per week
- Cheat Meal Count: 3 per week.
The more I think about it the more I can work things on this list to the daily list the better. I just need to figure it out. I really also need one day or two to just say – this is my day I do what I want. I am thinking that days I work are actually more productive with the other things it is just a matter of how much time things take.
Goals and Bucket List Items Achieved (Since Summer 2018):
Goals Achieved: 2
- Graduated College with a BS in Political Science and minors in Economics and International Business – December 2018
- Finalize last requirements for my degree – Internship by May 2019 – May 2019
Bucket List Items Achieved: 0
The Rabyd Skald – Wandering Soul, Bard, and Philosopher. The Grey Wayfarer.