Happy Frigg and Freya’s Day
My friend recently posted the above meme and generated a very interesting discussion between his wife, himself and the few other friends he tagged.
Whenever I have lost weight I always get the comment: “Holidays are coming, what you going to do then?” Well, for one I am not going to annoy people about my dietary accomplishments. It undercuts the whole spirit of celebration that is supposed to be around the holidays.
Secondly, I am going to live with the understanding that one day here and there off diet is not going to destroy my plans. I can participate with my family in whatever they are eating. If its meat laden I will probably grab more of it along with veggies and fruit where available. I will have things I am not supposed to eat with my diet. It will be a scheduled cheat day and I will cheat because it is good for the soul to just enjoy life and all the food that is available.
Finally, the rest of the time during the holidays, I will be very strictly Paleo with my intermittent fasting every other week. This will be at least 6 out of seven days and will more than make up for the one day here and there that is bad. More details do follow.
As for the rest of this journal entry, I am feeling better although this week has been very frustrating as my car has been out of commission, so my wife and I have had to juggle things and borrow. Our other car has had two flat tires this week. Yeah, not feeling really friendly toward cars these days.
“Discipline is the willingness to be hard on oneself first and then if needed help with the development with others, so that greater purposes may be achieved.”
Principle: Apply discipline to every aspect of life that it can be applied.
My discipline is being stretched right now as the end of the semester is upon me for the last time ( for this degree anyway). I am really struggling to get things done but it is not as bad as it was. I am now in the mode where I realize each day a lot of writing needs to get done. This blog becomes my break from all that academic writing, so I look forward to it every morning. I am starting to get hard on myself though with the studies. It will pay off.
“Perseverance is the ability to stand up and return from defeat and failure”
Principle: Keep getting up after every defeat or failure.
I haven’t been defeated yet, I haven’t failed in a while. That said, I prepare myself for the inevitable reality of it. This is why I spend time meditating and trying to find ways to heal up a little better. I also prepare my mind for this reality. I know I will fail to get defeated at some point, the preparation is so I get up quickly and get going again as fast as possible.
“Fidelity is the will to be loyal to one’s Gods and Goddesses, to one’s Folk, to one’s self, and loyalty to one’s friends was as valued as highly as loyalty to one’s family.”
Principle: Be loyal to those who have been loyal to me.
The issue of thanksgiving comes up as a loyalty concern to God for some. I am not sure that is what this holiday is about. It’s probably more about being thankful that there is a good meal on the table, family, friends and football. If there is a family holiday it is this one. I will write a little more on this in next weeks Odin’s Eye, but for now I can say my feelings about this holiday are still the same, but I find that perhaps it was always more about family than faith.
The subject of friendship comes up a lot. I have lost quite a few and I have cut off more than my share. I tend to be very loyal to my friends. Almost to a fault. At the same time my circle is small because I don’t trust at that level with just anyone. Recent events have made me even more cautious about who I say is my friend. I am already introverted so most of my friends are extroverts who adopted me or long time friends who are more like family. I probably could use a few more close friends but because I give much, I expect much in return.
I guess having been so disappointed recently in many of my ‘friends’, I am a little gun-shy about friendship in general. Seems like people only want your friendship because they gain something out of it and the moment you become a problem for them, they dump you. I don’t think I could take that right now, my heart is bruised enough already.
- Weightlifting – 4 days per week.
- Cleaning – 3 days a week.
- Walking – 4 days a week
Solid this week, I only missed a day of walking because a class was cancelled. It still brings up the fact I need to find some alternative when I don’t have school and that will be very soon.
OK. The details of this nutritional plan are all about my 50th birthday which is Monday, March 18th, 2019. MY goal here is to be in the best shape I have been in a long time in terms of fat loss, my muscles lean and strong and the whole thing flexible. I want to look really good. My main struggle for years was nutrition, but I think I have found a formula that works for me as evidenced by recent gains.
It’s just not as tight as it could be. I am not strictly Paleo as carbs do find their way into my diet probably every day and I want to handle that. Mostly it is bread because sandwiches are cheap. I also would have to say cereal is like that too. I need a bread substitute and something like cereal with the same affordability and quickness of preparation. Something to research this week.
I haven’t always been strict of have a pattern about the intermittent fasting either. I want to do this every week. I eat breakfast so I can take my pills and after that I should go on a no food lock down until 2 pm. My eating window should be breakfast and from 2 pm to 8 pm. If I get a different job that is more normal than the 4 am to 1 pm I usually work then this would probably shift to noon to 8 pm and I would take my pills at noon. I actually would probably like that a lot.
I am going to run this diet from November 23rd (Day after Thanksgiving) until my birthday and probably to the end of March. Cheat meals will be the holiday gatherings and birthdays. I will also give myself three cheats a week during this time which I might add as a part of the weekly routine to count it. In the meantime I need to do some research for Paleo alternatives to certain things.
Foundational – I don’t know about things here still. I feel good about some of it and feel other parts of it still need work. I have discovered that not giving a shit what people think can lead to sense of self value and thus honor. That said, honor is still a struggle. Courage is much better and so is Truth. If anything Truth has been off the chain for me lately and I have to exercise a lot more tongue biting than normal.
Business – The basic struggle here is still the same. My wife and I need to get to a place of financial security that has enough extra prosperity to start working our plans. Right now things are tight because we need to really increase our income. Once that happens, Self-reliance and Hospitality will be much easier. Both of us are definitely hard-working so that’s not a problem.
Self – The friendship fidelity questions remain but the Discipline and Perseverance questions are less and less each week. I am starting to feel a little more relaxed about things because of those two.
The Rabyd Skald – Wandering Soul, Bard and Philosopher. The Grey Wayfarer.