Happy Frigg and Freya’s Day
There are some forks in the road you do not want to encounter because they are difficult decisions to make. I find the ones involving Self to be this way more often than not. It is probably because inherent in Perseverance is this simple choice to get up or stay down. But when you look at the options many times with self, there are no bad ones, just choices where you are trying to determine what is best.
If I wrestle with forks in the road here, it is about trying to find what works and what is best. There is one issue however that is very difficult but more on that in a little bit.
“Discipline is the willingness to be hard on oneself first and then if needed help with the development with others, so that greater purposes may be achieved.”
Principle: Apply discipline to every aspect of life that it can be applied.
Goal: To follow A FULL Paleo Diet Plan from April 1, 2019, to March 31, 2020.
Bucket List: Do a rebellious act on April Fools Day, April 1st, 2020.
I am reassessing every Routine for effectiveness, but mostly I have come to the painful conclusion that I am simply weary with the whole academics and going to school thing. I am probably going to take at least until the end of the year to think about whether to do a master’s degree and what one at this time. I think it is best to put that on hold until I have a good job and know where I am living. That said once the semester is over in a little more than a week, I can get a better handle on what is working for me and how to fine-tune it. I feel like I am drifting here and that isn’t good.
“Perseverance is the ability to stand up and return from defeat and failure”
Principle: Keep getting up after every defeat or failure.
Goal: To engage in an exercise program that involves weightlifting, hiking/walking, and stretching/ yoga an average of three days a week from April 1st, 2019 to March 31st, 2020
Bucket List: To get at least one tattoo by March 18th, 2020.
This is the easy fork in the road for me. I keep getting up and I keep going forward as best I can. There is no quit here. I would probably have to do this less emotionally if I would stop knocking myself down.
“Fidelity is the will to be loyal to one’s Gods and Goddesses, to one’s Folk, to one’s self, and loyalty to one’s friends was as valued as highly as loyalty to one’s family.”
Principle: Be loyal to those who have been loyal to me.
Goal: Celebrate my wife and I’s 30th anniversary (June 10th, 2019) with a mini-vacation
Bucket List: Discover all the countries of origin from my genetics and visit them all by March 18th, 2029.
This is the real fork in the road that is giving me pause. In particular, ‘loyalty to self vs. loyalty to all the others’ comes up fairly regularly. I feel at times that I am losing what I want and my purpose as I strive for all the rest. I really need to be loyal to myself at times and that is not always an easy thing to tell people. I still feel like I need to back off yet with some things, because I am just not ready for them. Still healing I think. Deeper healing but still healing. I really need a new and better paying job because of this because I really want to get back to counseling for myself and my marriage. I can’t deny since we set it aside for financial reasons, I at least feel a little more adrift.
Higher Virtue – Wisdom:
Every decision: What is the loving thing to do? What is the just thing to do? What is the wisest thing to do? It does help to have this system. It leads to wiser choices. There are many forks in the road to navigate in life and having a way to ask these questions at each one has definitely helped.
- Weightlifting/Stretching – Minimum 3 days per week.
- Walking – Minimum 3 days a week
- Job Search – Minimum 3 days a week
- Cleaning – 3 days a week.
- Writing – 3 times a week
- Latin – 3 times per week
- Cheat Meal Count: 3 per week.
Needs work but the weightlifting I am having no trouble with. The rest is still a work in progress.
Goals and Bucket List Items Achieved (Since Summer 2018):
Goals Achieved: 1 Graduated College with a BS in Political Science and minors in Economics and International Business – December 2018.
Bucket List Items Achieved: 0
The Rabyd Skald – Wandering Soul, Bard, and Philosopher. The Grey Wayfarer.