Happy Moon’s Day
The thing about these journal posts is that they get changed a lot and this week the real challenge has been the idea of goals and where they come from. I realized this weekend that last week I didn’t really set nine goals so much as I drew out nine principles with which to evaluate my goals each week as far as making sure I am growing as a person in the area of character with my goals. So I am changing the nine goals I set last week into nine principles – one attached to each virtue.
Principles List: (edited)
- Be positive about my future.
- Act with courage at the right time.
- Pursue knowledge, wisdom and truth at all times.
- Work to be self-reliant in all things.
- Work with enjoyment of work itself.
- Be ready to be hospitable to those who truly need it.
- Apply discipline to every aspect of life that it can be applied.
- Keep getting up after every defeat or failure.
- Be loyal to those who have been loyal to me.
The problem is when it comes to goals I think they definitely need to be specific and not so general. I have also attached each goal in the past to a role but there are some roles that always require more goals than others and this creates imbalance. I am think that my goals will flow naturally from my meditations on these principles and my interests. Whether a goal is being actively worked toward I think those same meditations on the NNV will provide a positive or negative feedback on that.
I am now in meditation on this whole process and trying to see what natural goals develop out of it. I know for instance I need to keep up my health and that requires certain routines every day and during the week. I already have some goals that need to be finished first such as graduate from college and then start a new career. There is also some stuff I still want to do.
For me if I can add it to my morning routine, daily or weekly routines, that makes sure I work on it. but there is only so much time and other resources for all that. There are also obligations to consider. I think my goals will involve building and maintain the proper routines. It will also involve a short list of long-term goals and probably a bucket list. The issue right now is to meditate on the NNV and the principles I created last week and see what goals come out of that.
“Honor is the feeling of inner value and worth from which one knows that one is noble of being, and the desire to show respect for this quality when it is found in the world”
Principle – Be positive about my future
There are things that happen that challenge my honor. I strive to be noble of being despite the fact some do not see me as noble of being anymore. But the question of honor is never if others recognize your nobility of being, only yourself. If you are being honorable at the time, your past is irrelevant, it is just hard to get that emotionally for me at times.
Part of being positive about my future that has been a challenge is that there are still a lot of unknowns about the future with me. I try to look at things in the future positively, but I am not sure what exactly I am looking at. Hopefully things will be come clearer in the coming months.
“Courage is the bravery to do what is right always.”
Principle – Act with Courage at the right time.
Right now I am trying to find out what the right path might be. Once I know it more specifically it will be time to walk it with courage.
There is also a question of timing. Some things are still in process. Once those are finished then acting with courage at the right time will be easier because I will know the right time.
“Truth is the willingness to be honest and to say what one knows to be true and right. It is often better to not say anything at all if one cannot be honest.”
Principle – Pursue knowledge, wisdom and truth at all times.
I have actually found myself looking at the second part of this virtue. “Better to not say anything’. I have found a wisdom in silence with people who want to believe falsehoods. It simple allows my life to be less complicated in a way. It’s also good at keeping me humble about things. I have simple realized that some people will not accept the truth or don’t want to because they are motivated to hold onto a lie. No amount of my speaking the truth with change that, so better to let them rant and rave and go on with my journey through life.
If there has been a great shot in the arm to my motivation to study in school it has been the principle attached to this virtue. I am reading again for the joy of learning and that is a good thing. I am looking at knowledge and wisdom as a way to find the truth and it drives me. I must say of all the things I love right now it’s this virtue and its principle.
The Rabyd Skald – Wandering Soul, Bard and Philosopher. The Grey Wayfarer.