Happy Suns’ Day
We don’t pray here – we figure God, the gods, and goddesses, or whatever powers that be either know already, don’t give a fuck, or are busy with more important matters than our petty stuff. We also kind of assume that they expect us to do stuff that we can do for ourselves and that we will do them ourselves and not be lazy. We also believe in being good friends, so we don’t presume on our friendship with the powers that be by asking them all the time for stuff while giving them nothing in return.
We also don’t take an offering here. We figure the powers that be probably don’t need it. Let’s be honest, offerings are not giving to the divine powers, they are given to an organization to support it. Just being honest. God, the gods or whatever never sees a dime, farthing or peso of that money; it all goes to the church, mosque or shrine.
Opening Song: “Wash It All Away” – Five Finger Death Punch
This song is on my playlist but for multiple reasons. After my series with the Book of Rabyd, I will be doing a series on spiritual concepts that are universal and one of them is going to be ‘baptism’. This song inspired that idea although it goes back to an idea that someone else suggested to me before I left the ministry. Five Finger Death Punch is a new band for me in many ways, but I like the energy of this song. The bridge is also very expressive of my emotional state at times:
“I won’t change for you
and I can’t take the pain
There is nothing you can do
and nothing you can say”
Poem: “I Speak to a Ghost” by The Ruined Man
Don’t have a poem of my own this week so The Ruined Man will speak for me this time.
Song of Preparation: ‘Shut Up and Dance With Me’ – Walk the Moon
Just a feel-good song, we are talking about happiness after all.
“No One’s Happiness but My Own is in My Power to Achieve or to Destroy” – The Book of Rabyd 2:4
Originally this Quote by Ayn Rand was The Book of Rabyd 2:10; but with my desire to remove duplicate quotes as far as quotes from the same people, she jumps to 2:4. This also presents a problem of the fact I have eliminated about six verses at this point so some new people to quote from will be necessary to get the other points. I may jump ahead to chapter three and then drop those verses from chapter 2 in when they come to me. The Book of Rabyd is after all not a closed canon of scripture like some.
This statement is more complicated the more you meditate on it. But let’s break it down.
The first concept is that you cannot make people happy. I think this is the most enlightening thing as I have watched people give their all trying to make others happy and then get frustrated that 1) They fail or 2) They are not happy themselves. There is a lot of energy saved emotionally and mentally when you figure this out.
You can make yourself happy, in fact, your own happiness is the only happiness that you can really strive to achieve. You also are the only person who can destroy your own happiness. That is not to say that others can’t affect your happiness or life and general, but how you perceive, interpret and/or act about those things that determine your happiness and those are all in your power to do.
That’s not to say your emotions cannot be entwined with another. I think Heinlein’s definition of love is applicable here. The notion of love being where someone else’s happiness is essential to your own and vice versa. In the case of love, even here through the choices and who has the power over your happiness is still you.
In my own life, this principle has been difficult, even though the truth of it resonates with my soul. Being an empathic person kind of causes people’s emotions to affect you at times, like it or not. That said it is still my choice of whether or not to let that affect my happiness in general. I find also that memory can be a difficult thing to deal with at times. I have choices to make about each and every time I remember things because my memories are highly emotional which of course causes me to relive them like they were yesterday.
All in all, though, the principle is true. it is just you might have to make a lot of decisions and fight a lot of battles to stand on that mountain top of happiness. It is, however, your power to achieve or destroy.
Closing Song: “Don’t Stop Believing” – Journey:
Just the lyrics so you can sing along.
Yes, they do. When it comes to happiness you never know who or what will come along to brighten your day. You do have to be in the right frame of mind to be on the lookout for it.
The Rabyd Skald – Wandering Soul, Bard, and Philosopher. The Grey Wayfarer.