Happy Frigg and Freya’s Day
A side identity is what a person is known for in certain particular contexts. They are things that identify who you are but they are not the primary thing you are known for or the secondary one. To me, they make up a part of who you are but do not encompass who you are. My side identities are important parts of who I am but they are only who I am part of the time. Some of them are however known and are what is known about me.
Along with this are some that I want to have as side identities but I am still working on them. Things that will help with living my life better as a human being and supplement the primary and secondary things I am.
I think I have this side identity already. I lift at the gym a lot and I have received compliments both at work and at the gym about how much I lift and how I look the part. For me, this is in part about health and of course, a lot of nutritional elements go along with this. I am a Paleo nutrition follower but that is the part of weightlifting and the healthy living that goes along with it.
I do want to do more hiking and more walking. This is something I want to be a long term activity, but you know you have arrived at an identity people have of you when they start asking you advice about it. I get that with weightlifting, but not hiking, Yet. I have a lot to learn and a lot to do here before this is a true side identity.
I guess in part I have some expertise that people like to ask about here. I have read a lot and still read some. My decision to be a writer primarily comes with an understanding that a required side identity is being a reader. I don’t probably read as much as I should and that needs to change. That said, I have read enough that friends come to me and ask about stuff I know.
While I am a pagan in the sense I follow their virtues, I doubt very much people consider me a pagan yet. I want to embrace this a little more fully as part of my cultural identity and an embracing of my cultural heritage. I suppose there is also an element of telling my former Christian identity to kiss my ass. But mostly it is about getting in touch with my past to give me spiritual strength.
There are a couple of others I am considering. My daughter and I had a recent conversation about coffee. She wants to learn latte art, but my interest is the coffee itself. I have never been one to drink the stuff but Paleo allows for coffee. It would be nice to find some form of coffee that my palate would actually like and doesn’t have any sugar in it. It would be an interesting challenge to be a ‘coffee enthusiast’ because I have never really enjoyed a coffee before, but I am still meditating on it. I can see an image of me the reader sitting in my reading chair with a cup of good joe by my side so it is possible.
I am figuring some others will crop up as interests that complement other things. Almost all things are subject to the time you are inspired to give them and willing to sacrifice.
The Rabyd Skald – Wandering Soul, Bard, and Philosopher. The Grey Wayfarer.